Problem: During our relationship, I have become very impatient with my boyfriend/girlfriend. I am very quick to snap at him/her for little things and somehow i fight with him/her about everything. I don't want to fight, but I cant help it, I feel like this is the end of the road for us.
Advice: During a relationship, it is easy to become tired and impatient. Sometimes, you just want to give up. We all know being in a relationship has its challenges, but you have to be patient and forgive easily. Everyone is guilty of getting upset too quickly... do you forgive as easily as well? If you find yourself getting upset, take a moment to gather your thoughts and talk to your partner about what is bothering you. Be constructive and when you are finished, have something to do. example: him: I will try not to leave the toilet seat up. her: I will try not to get upset when you leave it up and will politely remind you if you forget.
Friday, December 3, 2010
7 "Tell me more" phrases
Want to keep the conversation going without asking?
Say these magical conversational phrases to make the other person keep talking.
"Tell me more..."
"What are your reasons for your opinion" or "Why do you feel that way?"
"I never thought of it that way"
"That must have upset you" or "That must have been really fun!"
"How did it go?"
"You are a really generous person"
"I really admire that"
People love to talk about themselves. Lead them on with these lines. Good luck!
Say these magical conversational phrases to make the other person keep talking.
"Tell me more..."
"What are your reasons for your opinion" or "Why do you feel that way?"
"I never thought of it that way"
"That must have upset you" or "That must have been really fun!"
"How did it go?"
"You are a really generous person"
"I really admire that"
People love to talk about themselves. Lead them on with these lines. Good luck!
5 Questions to Ask your date
So you are on a your first, or maybe second date. What do you want to ask that person?
After you've asked all the regular/usual stuff and your stumped about what to ask him/her. try one of these:
What is your favorite scene from your favorite book/movie?
What do you love about your job?
Whats your definition of a relationship?
If money were no object, what would you do with your life?
What was your most embarrassing moment?
These are sure fire ways to get more info out of your date because everyone can come up with some kind of answer. You can add your input as well.
After you've asked all the regular/usual stuff and your stumped about what to ask him/her. try one of these:
What is your favorite scene from your favorite book/movie?
What do you love about your job?
Whats your definition of a relationship?
If money were no object, what would you do with your life?
What was your most embarrassing moment?
These are sure fire ways to get more info out of your date because everyone can come up with some kind of answer. You can add your input as well.
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